Chapter 31
trouble. That is why.‛
This caused sadness to the father who wondered: ‚Why does my son Sudinna have the
heart to say so?‛
Lure Through The Wife
Being unable to lure the Venerable Sudinna to return to household life by showing him
the riches, the father thought: ‚There is now no fetter like a woman for a man,‛ he sent the
ex-wife of Sudinna, saying: ‚I pray you, dear daughter, my son Sudinna loves you. He is
fond of you. He may listen to you.‛ Accordingly, the ex-wife grasped Sudinna's legs in her
arms and said:
‚You have followed the noble practice, my lord, for the sake of getting celestial
damsels. How do they look like?‛
(Explanation: In those days, many princes, sons of
brahmins
, and sons of
merchants renounced their untold luxuries and became ascetics. Seeing them, those
who were ignorant of the benefits of an ascetic life used to ask: ‚Why do these
people became ascetics?‛ And the answers they got from those who pretended to
know was: ‚Because they want to have celestial damsels and dancers.‛ The
questions and answers of these unknowledgeable people became widespread.
Acting on that reply, the ex-wife of the Venerable Sudinna asked as mentioned
above.)
The Venerable Sudinna replied: ‚I do not, sister, practise the noble practice for celestial
damsels.‛ This prompted the ex-wife to think thus: ‚My Lord Sudinna has now called me
‘sister’. He no longer wants me now. Not wanting me who is his partner in life, and his
own wife, he takes me as his own sister, born of the same mother.‛ Her thought brought
about grief and caused her to fall down in faintness at that very place.
Then the Venerable Sudinna said to his father: ‚If you are to give food, donor, do so. Do
not trouble us with your display of wealth and woman. Enticement with such a display
means torment to monks!‛ Thereafter, the parents personally offer excellent food to the
Venerable Sudinna until he was satisfied and stopped them.
Request for Procreative Seed
When the meal was done, the mother of the Venerable Sudinna said to him:
‚Dear son Sudinna, our family is rich. We have a great hidden wealth. There are
abundant luxuries and things for daily use. There are many delightful articles and
treasures. So are there countless goods and grains for trading and exchange. Come,
dear Sudinna, return to lay life and enjoy the riches. And do good works.‛
Sudinna rejected his mother's words by giving the same answer as that given to his father:
‚I cannot become a lay man, mother. I dare not do so. I am very happily engaging in the
noble practice (of the threefold training).‛ The mother said as before for the second time
and the Venerable Sudinna replied the same. On the third time, however, Sudinna's mother
asked for procreative seed by saying:
‚Dear son Sudinna, our family is rich. We have a great hidden wealth. There are
abundant luxuries and things for daily use. There are many delightful articles and
treasures. So are there countless goods and grains for trading and exchange. Dear
Sudinna, in that case (if you find happiness so much in the Buddha's dispensation),
give the seed for procreation. Let not the Licchavi princes take over the
possessions of ours as we have no sons to inherit.‛
Then Sudinna reflected: ‚I am the only heir to the wealth of my father and mother. There
is nobody else. (As long as I do not give the seed) they will constantly follow me for
protection of the wealth. If they do so, I will not have a chance to devote myself to
asceticism free of worries. My parents will give up following me only when they get a son
as an heir. Then only will I be able to perform my duties as a monk in comfort and
happiness.‛ And he replied: ‚Mother, I can, however, do something to provide the seed for