The Life Stories of the Female Lay Disciples – 2221
and wealth. Go back and tell your master that his proposal for betrothal is
accepted.
Migāra’s representatives returned to Sāvatthī and reported to him: “Householder,
we have obtained the consent of Dhanañjaya, the householder of Sāketa, to have
his daughter betrothed to Puṇṇavaḍḍhana.” Migāra was overjoyed to find a
bride from such a great family for his son. He sent an urgent message to
Dhanañjaya to the effect that he would come and fetch the bride in a few day’s
time, and would Dhanañjaya made suitable arrangements? Dhanañjaya replied
that he would made every arrangement and requested Migāra to do the needful.
The Kosalan King Honours the Betrothal
Migāra the householder went to the Kosalan King and sought permission to go
to Sāketa to attend the wedding ceremony of his son, Puṇṇavaḍḍhana, a trusted
servant of the king, to Visākhā, daughter of Dhanañjaya the householder of
Sāketa.
The king said: “Very well, householder, need we go with you?”
“Great King,” Migāra said, “how could we expect the presence of such an
important personage as yourself?” The king wanted to honour both parties to the
betrothal with his presence and said: “So be it, householder, I will go with you.”
And so the king went to Sāketa together with the householder.
When Dhanañjaya was informed of the arrival of Migāra and the Kosalan King,
he greeted the king personally and escorted him to his house. He made careful
arrangements to host the king and his army, Migāra and his entourage. Food,
lodging, flowers, perfumes and every item of comfort was provided to all,
according to their need and status. He attended to these details personally so that
every guest had the impression that Dhanañjaya the householder was doing a
special favour to them.
Later on, one day, the Kosalan King said to Dhanañjaya through a messenger:
“Householder, we are here in too big a crowd. We might be causing a burden to
you if we were to stay long. Maybe, you should think of the time for sending the
bride to Sāvatthī.” To which, Dhanañjaya replied through the messenger: “Great
King, now is the rainy season. Your army will find it difficult to make a journey.
Let the provision of every need of your army be my responsibility. I would
request your majesty to return to Sāvatthī only when I make the send-off.”