38b: The Destruction of the Sakyans – 1363
sons, together with their father, have been beheaded. Even that news I did not
allow to prey on my mind; how would this pot of ghee prey on my mind?”
Ven. Sāriputta gave a discourse beginning with the verse (
Salla-sutta
, Snp. 3.8):
Animittam-anaññātaṁ maccānaṁ idha jīvitaṁ
, “unsignalled and unknown here
is the life of mortals.” Then he rose from his seat and returned to the Jetavana
monastery.
When the offering of food to the Saṅgha was finished Mallikā sent for her 32
daughters-in-law and said: “Dear daughters-in-law, your husbands, though
faultless, have suffered the consequence of their past deeds. Do not be oppressed
by sorrow, grief and lamentation. Also do not bear malice against the king.”
These words were overheard by the king’s secret agents who reported to the
king that Bandhula and his sons were free of guilt. The king was remorseful. He
went to Mallikā’s house and apologized to Mallikā and her 32 daughters-in-law.
Then he asked Mallikā to name any boon she would like.
Mallikā said: “Great King, let the boon be considered as having been granted to
me.” After the king had returned, she offered special alms food to the Saṅgha
for the benefit of her dear departed ones. Then she took her bath and went to see
the king. She bowed before the king and said: “Great King, you have granted me
leave to name a boon. I have no other wish than your permission to allow me
and my 32 daughters-in-law to return to our respective parents.” The king gave
his assent gladly. Mallikā sent home her 32 daughters-in-law to their respective
parents’ homes and she herself returned to hers.
Mallikā lived in her parents’ home in Kusinārā for a long time. Later, when the
Buddha passed away and she learned that his remains were being carried to
Kusinārā by the Mallas, she got the idea to honour the Buddha by adorning the
Buddha’s body with the famous Great Creeper (
Mahā-latā
) gown which she had
not worn since the death of her husband. She took it out from its place, cleaned
it with perfumed water and awaited the arrival of the Buddha’s remains.
The Great Creeper gown was a very rare piece of adornment which only three
persons had the good fortune to possess. According to the commentary on the
Long Discourse about the Emancipation (
Mahā-parinibbāna-sutta
, DN 16), that
was: Visākhā; Mallikā, wife of Bandhula, the commander-in-chief; and the
daughter of a rich man of Bārāṇasī, Devadāniyā the thief; according to the