34a: The 17th Rains Retreat (Beauty) – 1132
2. The same discourse was taught with reference to the courtesan Sirimā in
Rājagaha.
The account of the second teaching has been told. That of the first teaching was
as follows:
Ven. Janapadakalyāṇī Nandā
While visiting the city of Kapilavatthu for the first time after becoming a
Buddha, the Buddha exhorted the Sakyan Prince and ordained Prince Nanda
and
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others. Five years later when he granted permission for ordination of
females as female monastics the three Sakyan princesses:
1. Nandā, sister of Ven. Ānanda.
2. Abhirūpanandā, daughter of the Sakyan Prince Khemaka.
3. Janapadakalyāṇī Nandā, fiance of Prince Nanda were also ordained.
At the time of their ordination, the Buddha was still staying in Sāvatthī. Of these
three princesses, Abhirūpanandā was so-called because of her great beauty.
Janapadakalyāṇī Nandā too saw nobody else comparable to her in beauty. Since
both were highly conceited with their beautiful appearance, they never
approached the Buddha nor did they want to see him either; for they thought:
“The Buddha dispises beauty. In various ways, he points out the fault in good
looks.”
“Why then did they become female monastics?” it may be asked. The answer is:
“Because they had none to depend on in society; hence their becoming female
monastics.”
Explanation: The husband of the Sakyan Princess, Abhirūpanandā, died on the
day they were married. Then the parents made her a nun against her will.
Janapadakalyāṇī became a nun because she had lost her hope to win back her
fiance when the latter, as Ven. Nanda, became an Arahat. Then she thought:
“My Lord, Prince Nanda, my mother Mahā Pajāpati Gotamī, and other relatives
have joined the Saṅgha. It is indeed a misery to live without one’s kinsmen in the
world of householders,” and finding no solace in living in an organised
community of families. Both of their ordinations took place, but not out of faith
(
saddhā
).